How to Speak of God

Dear Philothea!

As “lovers of God” it is inevitable and important that we speak to God and of God many times. What counsel does our father Saint Francis de Sales give us on this?

“Always speak of God as of God, that is to say, with reverence and devotion without affectation or playing the preacher but with a spirit of gentleness, of charity and humility... Never speak of God or devotion negligently for the sake of talking, but always with attention and devotion. I say this for taking away from you a special kind of vanity which I find in many who make a profession of devotion. They say some fervent holy words at every turn by way of social tact without thinking of what they say. After saying them, they think that they are such as their words are, but it is not so” (IDL, Part III, Chapter 26).

Yes, if we love God we must speak of Him, and speak of Him with love, reverence, humility and gentleness: “Wisdom comes from the lips of the upright, and his tongue speaks what is right” (Psalm 37:30).

Wish you a week full of wisdom.

Peace!

Fr. George

Spiritual Director

Bishop-Elect of the Diocese of Ngong 
Mgr. John Oballa Owaa & Father George

Dear Philothea!

We have just begun the Novena in honour of our father Saint Francis de Sales. He was very much concerned about the holiness of everyone, and tried to trace a path to assist them in that. The following is one of his counsels to those who truly are “seeking God” (read: “devout life”) in their life:

“To preserve in devout life it is a matter of deciding upon some excellent and generous maxims, with the right intention. The first I would suggest to you is that of Saint Paul, “All turns out well for those who love God” (cf. Rom 8:28). If we agree that God can and does draw good out of evil, will He not do that especially for those who give themselves to Him without reserve? Even our very sins (from which may God preserve us!) are destined by Providence for the good of those who serve God. If David had not sinned, he would not have learned his deep sense of humility!...” (Letters 1420)

If David had not sinned...

May the teachings of Saint Francis de Sales act as lighted-lamps illumining our way to God.

Have a blessed week with lots of affectionate thoughts of our father!

Peace!

Fr. George

Spiritual Director

Novena to Saint Francis de Sales

Prayer to Saint Francis de Sales

(As a Novena Prayer you may recite the following prayer from Sunday the 15th January ending on 23rd January. The Feast is on Tuesday24th)

Saint Francis de Sales
Pray for us!

Dear Saint Francis de Sales, by your life and in your writings you teach us to follow Christ by loving God our Father, and all other persons, our brothers and sisters. Obtain for us the grace to be led by the Holy Spirit, so that we show our love for God by fidelity to prayer, by diligence in our work, by cheerful service of others.

Teach us to be patient and forgiving, kind and helpful to all. Help us to face the difficulties and sufferings of life with a heart full of trust in God our ever-loving Father.

Dear Saint Francis de Sales, while on earth you were always ready to help those in need. Come to my aid and obtain for me from God, through the intercession of Our Lady, the special grace for which I now pray.

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O gentle Saint Francis, bless our home with your presence. May our hearts glow with love for God and a sincere concern for others, so that our lives may show in word and deed the blessing of your patronage. Amen.

Dear Philothea!

Our father Saint Francis de Sales is renowned for his teaching on doing everything motivated by love and not by force. At the beginning of the New Year, it might be a very good resolution to take, to put love into all our actions; we fulfil our duties because we LOVE it. Our Father says,

All by LOVE!

“All that we do must be motivated by love and not force. We must love to obey rather than fear to disobey. I leave you the spirit of liberty; not the liberty that excluded obedience, because this would be a liberty of the flesh, but the true spirit of liberty which includes obedience. When you have to omit your practices of piety for a just and charitable reason, I want you to make use of this occasion as a kind of obedience; then love will compensate for the spiritual exercises you have missed” (Letters 234).

Have a very “loving” year, will you?

Peace!

Fr. George

Spiritual Director

May the Mother of God bless you!

Dear Philothea!

A very happy and blessed New Year to you. We have many dreams for the year 2012, and await many blessings from the Lord. The Lord’s hand is not short (cf. Is 50:2). We shall receive many good things from him. He shall certainly grant all our hearts desires which correspond to His holy will. As we receive all these blessings, our father Saint Francis de Sales tells us not to forget the “Giver” of all such blessings:

“A mother to win over her child puts sweets into his mouth one after the other with her own hand. If the child were able to understand, he would find greater pleasure in the sweetness of his mother's loving attention and caresses than from the sweetness of the sweets. Philothea, it is a great thing, indeed, to have feelings of sweetness, but it is supreme sweetness  to realize that God, like a loving mother puts them with his own hand into our mouth, our hearts, our soul and our mind”  (Introduction to the Devout Life, Part 4, Chapter 13).

May the Lord make his presence felt in our life throughout the New Year 2012.

“If the Lord is for us, who can be against us?” (Rom 8:31).

We wish you a very blessed New Year 2012 protected by our Holy Mother, the Theotókos!

Peace!

Fr. George

Spiritual Director